We’ve all seen them: the catchy, feel-good phrases splashed across Instagram, printed on t-shirts, or thrown around in casual conversation. “Cut out toxic people.” “Do only what brings you joy.” “Good vibes only.” They sound empowering—and sometimes, they really are. But life doesn’t always fit neatly into these soundbites.
The truth is, it’s not always so simple. Life can be messy, relationships complex, and personal growth challenging. Walking away isn’t always the answer, nor is blindly sticking it out. What’s often needed is something far less glamorous but infinitely more powerful: discernment.
Discernment is knowing when it’s time to move on and when it’s time to lean in. It’s recognizing when a situation no longer serves you—and when it’s asking you to grow. It’s the quiet, steady voice that reminds us that running from every challenge might mean missing the lesson it holds.
Some of the most transformative experiences in life are the ones we’d rather avoid. Sitting in discomfort. Facing difficult truths about ourselves. Navigating relationships that don’t fit into a tidy definition of “good vibes.” And yet, those moments often shape us the most.
As a Wild Awake Woman, I believe this: life isn’t about avoiding hardship or chasing perfection. It’s about meeting every moment with curiosity, courage, and the willingness to discern what’s being asked of you.
So, the next time you hear a catchy phrase that oversimplifies a complex situation, pause. Ask yourself:
- Is this a moment to step away, or is this a moment to dig deeper?
- Am I being invited to set a boundary—or to expand my understanding?
- What does my inner wisdom say about this?
Discernment doesn’t always come easily. It takes practice. It takes listening. And it takes trust in your ability to navigate the gray areas of life with grace.
Here’s to choosing the path that’s right for you—not the one that fits into a hashtag.
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