Welcome to Musings
Your 2026 Vision is a Waste of Time if You Skip this Step
The other morning, I sat with my calendar open. Not planning, just observing. I sat down with my calendar. Just me, my tea, and the growing awareness that 2025 is winding down and something in how I’ve been spending my time doesn’t quite fit.
The “Oh But” Chorus
I was definitely the black sheep of the family. Not in the rebellious, dramatic kind of way but in the I made choices no one really understood kind
Glow For You First
I lived addicted to being seen. Performing my worth, glowing on cue, mistaking attention for connection. Maybe some of you are living this way right now.
Joy As A Power Move
Joy doesn’t wait for perfect circumstances. She shows up when you do. She meets you where you are, if you’re bold enough to let her in.
When The Chaos Stops
For so long, my body only new how to live on high alert. Always ready for the next fire to put, the next problem to solve, the next hoop to jump through.
The Trance of Fine
I’ve caught myself drifting into the rhythm of the same old, same old. Predictable days. Safe choices. Life that looks fine on the outside but feels restless underneath, the quiet, insistent knowing: this is not what I came here for.
Be Ruthless About Your Influences
Here’s the truth: you are being influenced every single day. By the people you spend time with, the accounts you scroll, the conversations you join, and the voices you let echo in your mind. It’s not neutral. It’s not harmless. It’s shaping you.