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A Lot of Life in A Small Space
There’s a moment most of us don’t notice. It’s that space between impulse and action. The space between the thing we’ve always done and the thing we actually want. That tiny space is where deliberate living begins.
It Wasn’t Fun Anymore
Last weekend, someone sent me a video of myself at a dance competition. I hit play expecting to cringe a little, but instead, there I was smiling, laughing, having fun. Actually having fun.
Truth and Pretending
The most dangerous thing you can do? Tell yourself the truth especially when everyone around you wants you to keep pretending. I’ve been thinking about this
Lessons Learned from the Show Ring
I came home from the Scottsdale Arabian Horse Show with one Reserve Champion and one Top Ten in very good glasses. I was dialed in for my Reserve Champion class but not so much for my Top Ten class. On paper, it looked like a win. A ribbon. A clean ride. The kind of result that says, “You did great.”
Coming Home to Yourself
Sometimes we tell ourselves a story that a big life shift requires a big life event. This could look like a breakdown, a career collapse, a relationship ending or a health scare. Something dramatic enough to jolt us awake.
The Key to Feeling More Alive
There’s a version of me who knows how to get things done. She’s clear, capable, efficient. She meets deadlines, holds it all together, and has a plan. She’s the version the world has often rewarded. The one people call “strong.” But she’s not the only one who lives here.
When Your Life No Longer Fits
There’s a moment no one prepares you for.
The moment when the life you worked so hard to build, the one you followed all the rules for, suddenly doesn’t feel like your life anymore.